Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-28649282-20160810173058/@comment-30795583-20160811132058

Masterhands-paper wrote: 1.) Well it's ALSO because of your current attitude and mental state that even made them want to leave in the first place! Because of the amount of problems that this place has, and how serious it became, they want to take a break like what you wnated to do. They leave, for the sole reason that you said

'''"   it won't be the same for me without them." '''

 2.) Then let us help you! What are these "problem users"? Why are they a problem?How can you solve the problem? What can be done about them to resolve it in both sides!? So many people like me is ready to help so dont decide to keep it in. Besdes, both sides are both good and worng too depending on the perspective. You gotta think their way of you wanna solve anything. 

3.) No one forced you to be depressed. Its either its so bad that you have to be, OR You chose to be. If you feel really shitty IRL, then dont let it sink in here. It's if you choose to be affected that decides whether going here makes you feel like you entered ultimate despair. I have a very eye bag dropping and time enducing life, but I spend 5 hours here instead of oing my Math, English A and History Projects! and my sister and mom makes me so pissed at times and I feel like i wanna rage out here, but I refuse to let it affect how I act virtually. Im not saying you should do the same, but if the mere sight of your notifications brings you down, then you should clear to me why it happens so I wont say anything that seems out of context

4.) Thats why we want to help solve it! Let admins hep you! Let helpful users help you! You gotta be more open to us and chpose who can help! It might not be easy but it might be more affective if you finally decide to let an admin or two help you as you try to struggle free from this mess I agree with Masterhands.