Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-26083952-20160802231105/@comment-27495763-20160803100735

CureStarnight wrote: Something I've noticed is that people have been getting really stressed out. That isn't good. If we are a community, then why are we arguing? Why are we threatening to leave something we love very much? Plus, Minna Tomodachi! We're all friends here. We all need to listen to each other. We all need to make each other feel good. If people get stressed, then that just takes the fun outta roleplaying. If people get stressed out, then we won't be able to have fun anymore. We all need to take the time and listen to each other. I'm sure you're kinda tired of seeing me complain and rant and me trying to get this nonsense to stop, BUT I'M SAYING THIS FOR GOOD REASON! It's not really that fun anymore because of the tension going around. Please, just try to make a difference. And now a song to try and make us all feel better and to remind us that MINNA TOMODACHI! MINNA AIDORU! ^^ (You know me trying to pull out Aikatsu references in a PriPara-related wiki XD) Hahaha well I dont want to spoil the fun of this so called positive forum thread, but yeah lets be realistc for a moment. I wouldn't really want to call the emotional state of everyone, but most likely other than Hanako, to be stress because I know it is, but it shouldnt be something that would be called strees, because ONLY HANAKO i think is freaking out to the point that you can call it a "a state of mental or emotional strain or tension resulting from adverse or very demanding circumstance" 

 Also I think its just me, but personaly I see the ARGUING as a good thing. Through this, we became self-aware about the feelings and situations of out fellow memebers, and some even ursted out of their shell to give their thoughts and participate on discussion, to give their point of view. Arguing might be negative, but I see it pretty positively because I *cough* love drama and fights *cough cough* and because the outcome  can give both good and negative effects on people, that lets us learn and change our point of view, usually both on yourself and how you teart others. (or atleast im overthinking it)

 When it comes to people actually leaving, its there own persoan fault for feeliing too guilty to even stay. If they really do love this place and want to stay, they would fight for what they think is right and stay because sometimes, regardless of what people think you if you love something very much and dont want to leave, it only depends on you if you'd be affected by it.

 Stress doesnt take the fun out of roleplaying, I mean it doesnt have to. It only depends on the user if she'd allow the wiki's external problems leak in into roleplaying. It DOES NOT have to affect you and your characters. I know something like this might damage one emotional, but its your choice if you want to let yoour characters feel the same way and make them suffer because you are too. How you feel doesnt necessarily have to leak in roleplaying, because its possible for someone to roleplay playfully while feeling like crying, because it helps take their mind off things too I guess

I know you mean good whenyou made this and I'm pretty sure it helped alot, but like what Hanako keeps doing, mere words isnt enough to make someone earn discipline. Listening to each other is easy, but putting what they heard into practice is another topic.

Honestly though @CureStarnight, I feel you. This whole off topicness has been going longer than what I expected and I know I'm not the only one who wants us to just put it uner a rug for now, but this problem doesnt have to take your, or everyone's fun away and I dont want it to. Yes, this really did make a difference, because you were able to voice out that discipline has to be used, but it doesnt have to take awya the fun, and I'm pretty proud of that ^^